"You must have been planning this for a while." The very patient
booking agent for American Airlines had been on the phone with me for
two hours. Which was probably a long conversation for someone who, up
until 8am that morning, had not heard about my upcoming travels.
To say I'm traveling is a bit of an understatement.
More like taking a page from the explorer Ferdinand Magellan with 21st
century upgrades. Mostly this means a compression of time and space. I
am still going to circumnavigate the globe. Just by
plane/train/automobile instead of boat, in six months instead of two
years. Or at least that is how the agenda stands now.
The concept is hardly new, at least to me. And to my
beleaguered friends and family, who have been listening since the seed
of an idea took firm root. This wanderlust has deep roots. My mother
still laughs about my rather abrupt departure on my first solo flight (I
was seven and had a miniature pink suitcase, thankyouverymuch). Since then, a collection
of adventures has stoked an inextinguishable fire. This one started
after reading about a hacker's successful use of frequent flyer miles and crystallized when, after nearly a bottle of wine
and an excel spreadsheet, that I could achieve it too.
Two years of saving every dollar to pay off student
loans early and generate a five figure savings account for the first
time. Two years of looking at maps, playing with global ticket planners, calculating visa fees, figuring out
expatriate health insurance and opening checking accounts with no
international ATM fees. Getting through practical crap that can make or
break any trip in this day and age. Magellan didn't have to worry about whether his platinum mileage Visa
card had the appropriate microchip or if the layover in Heathrow was
long enough to make the connecting flight. Then again, the embassy
wasn't an option when the natives became hostile...just game over. See
Dad, things have improved dramatically in the world.
But the payoff is immeasurable. And along with the
minutia of logistics comes the unbelievable joy of adventure. The freedom
to spin the globe (yes, a physical ball on a pedestal) or open a crusty
travel guide from the library and say, there...right there....is where I
am going. The pleasure of digging into the recesses of childhood dreams
and mixing them with places added along the way. The excitement of meeting new people, learning about
differences and celebrating commonalities. It is the sheer expanse of
possibilities that drives any explorer forward into the unknown. Even if
that unknown is unique only to the specific explorer.
This
particular explorer is also feeling the
approach of a precipice. The spreadsheet and wine night came at the
right time. It was shortly before my 28th birthday and it dawned on me
that thirty was no longer a distant mirage but a rapidly approaching
reality. I know its not the end of the world. In fact, as most of my
thirty and older friends tell me, it is when life really starts to get
good. The no bullshit decade when the dabbles, dalliances and neuroses
of your twenties fade into serious things like VP titles, real estate
and babies. Again, more things Magellan didn't really consider
seriously. Then again, I'm pretty sure he had no living family and was
broke when he died, so maybe its not really not a fair comparison.
I'm not necessarily nostalgic for my twenties. It
was a fun decade and I learned a lot. I have no desire to relive it. And
while I am excited about the possibilities of my thirties, I'm not
ready to bite off the permanent things like a mortgage or preschool
tuition. I am not entirely convinced I ever will be. Perhaps the most
important aspect of this trip is time to digest these feelings. To come
to terms with what I do and don't want out of the next decade. To be
inspired and reinvigorated by the world and its incredible diversity. To
set a framework in my mind for the coming years and to become
comfortable with it....whatever it looks like in the end.
Of course, this is not the answer I gave the agent
on the phone. But I welcome you--my family, friends, acquaintances and
(un)lucky random reader who has stumbled upon this amateur, long-winded
writer--to the story of the 30th year project.
1 comment:
I am STOKED for your adventure and hope & intend to meet you somewhere along the way. Kudos to you, my friend. My brave, exciting, amazing Friend.
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